Sweet!

What a great morning! Yesterday was NOT a good day. The whole Hamilton family had a bad case of the grouchies. Everyone was complaining and fighting, myself included. We made a shopping trip to BJs and didn't buy anything. It was that bad! I wanted to spend a little time at the barn, working Lola and getting her cleaned up before her "big" move today. Well, that didn't really happen. Skye threw a tantrum, and as punishment we decided she couldn't go swimming with Dave and Luke, so I got her. Her punishment was a barn trip with me. Lucky me. I did a quick trip, quick grooming, gave Lola some treats, and cleaned out my stuff. I didn't have a chance to do any work with her, so I was slightly nervous about trailering her today.

I dropped the kids at camp, ended up chatting with the director and some teachers there, so I was running late, but I did manage to stop for a quick ice coffee, thank goodness! I function so much better with coffee.

Headed to the new barn, and was relieved to see the trailer hitched up and ready to go. It was a nice big trailer with lots of windows. It could be a 4 horse trailer, but it was set up with two nice big box stalls, couldn't be more perfect.

I met up with Jackie and her daughter, and off we went. We had a nice time chatting on the way. Jackie is a wonderful woman, and she and I seem to have a lot in common. I'm really excited about this new barn! We got to the old barn, and the circular driveway we were told we could use for a turn around was blocked by a car. I didn't really know the people who's house it was, but we needed to turn the trailer so.....

I rang the doorbell and a woman I had never seen before answered. "I uh, hmmm, I board my horse across the street at Sarah's house, and she told me it might be OK for us to use your driveway to turn our trailer around. Would it be OK, and would you mind moving your car?" Sure enough, she was very nice and came right out to move it. She did look at me a little strangely, but that's not the first time I've gotten a funny look from someone.

It took a little work to make the left turn out of the driveway, we had to go into 4-wheel drive to get the truck out of the ditch, but we made it. We parked on the side of the road in front of Sarah's and went to get Lola. I was so happy I hadn't left much at the barn. I just had a brush and some flyspray. Got Lola's halter on, and took a nice slow walk up the driveway. I let her stop to eat a little grass and kept things very slow and calm. I let her stop again just outside of the trailer to eat a couple of more bites of grass, and then I asked her to get in the trailer. She took a sniff and stepped right in! Wow! I was so proud of my girl!

We had a pleasant ride back to the barn. More chit chatting, and Lola happily munched her hay and stayed quiet. When we got to the new barn, Lola was very calm. The ride didn't seem to have made her nervous at all. She stepped off the trailer very calmly and took a look around. Jackie went to get a pasture ready for her, and I walked her around a little. We turned her out by herself, but right next to the other horses. She calmly said hello to them and started grazing. I think I'm going to like this new barn! It was so nice for me to see her out grazing. I can't wait until she has a chance to adjust a bit and she can get turned out with the other horses. She is going to be in heaven. The barn is airy and clean, her stall is HUGE. I think we are going to like it here!

I can't wait to get back to the barn tonight to go check on her, but I'm sure she is fine. My guess is that she will be in her stall, happily munching on some hay when I get up there tonight. I'll walk her around outside a bit, and maybe do a little bit of ground games in the ring and groom her. Sounds like a great night. I'm so excited I don't have to drive half an hour to go see her anymore!

Is it too much to ask for my horse to have water?

What a nightmare! I knew Sarah was away for the last couple of days, and I went to the barn yesterday expecting dirty stalls. What I didn’t expect was to find the horses without water and to find out they hadn’t been fed breakfast yesterday! I’m so angry!

So I paid my babysitter yesterday so that I could go to the barn, clean all three stalls, feed and water the horses, and let poor Lola have a bath and graze. Why do I find myself worrying about whether or not my horse has water on a 95 degree day? Isn’t that part of what I’m paying board for? It really sucks that what is supposed to be my “relaxing” time was SO stressful. Ugh. I'm not asking for any fancy care here, I'm asking for WATER. I don't think that is too much to ask.

Today, I ended up dragging the kids to the barn because I was worried about the horses not having water again. As it was, there was very little water left when I got there. Sarah did show up while I was there and cleaned stalls, but it really bothers me that no one is more stressed about the horses running out of water.

I really wanted to work with Lola this week and get her driving game as strong as I could before we try to move her on Monday. Hopefully I can get in another barn trip on Sunday. It sucks when I have to spend the little time I have with my horse cleaning up and I don’t get to do anything fun.

Since I seem to be in a mood to rant, I mind as well go into my next problem with the barn yesterday. Sarah’s friend shows up with her boyfriend who doesn’t really ride. They tack up Sarah’s two horses and say they are going out on a trail ride. The guy is nervous, so of course the horse gets nervous. What does the girl say to do? Of course she yells on him to get a grip on her mouth, pull her back, and give her a good kick if she doesn’t listen. YIKES! It makes me crazy. Why are people so terrible to their horses? So they ask me to walk the horse to the end of the driveway. Why the guy would even go out when he couldn’t control the horse is beyond me, but not my problem. I help them walk out, and a few minutes later I see them switching horses. Now the guy is on the young thoroughbred. They try to leave and end up coming back again. They walk around the ring a few times, more yanking to turn and of course lots of yanking and kicking to stop and “make the horse listen” and they venture out on the trails again! Yikes. I’m thankful no one got hurt. I’m so thankful I discovered Parelli. I wish more people would learn that there are so many better ways than being rough on these poor animals.

Driving at the Barn

Dave’s away, so I decided to head to the barn this morning while the kids were at camp. I figured that I could work tonight after the kids were asleep, and then I could have a little barn time too.

I’m starting to really get into some fun stuff with the Parelli program. The latest lesson I’m reading/watching, is teaching how to pick up all four of the horses feet from one side, and also how to drive the horse from Zone 3, (the side of the horse.) I'm also working on getting Lola to put her head down when I ask her to, and to keep it down until I ask her to pick it up, but that isn't really as much fun as the new driving game I was doing today.

When I got to the barn today, Lola was basically black. Forget those big white patches she used to have, she was just a ball of mud. I hosed her off, and checked out all her new scrapes. She seems to itch herself quite a bit, and in the process rubs fur off her face and butt. Nice. Thankfully, none of them have been seriously so far.

I played Friendly, Porcupine, Driving and Yo-Yo Games. I spent an extra lot of time playing Friendly and Porcupine with her legs. Lots of rubbing them, practicing to get her to lift them as easily as possible, but not yet trying to left all four from one side.

Then we tried the Driving from Zone 3 task. It was quite a bit more challenging than I expected. The idea is to stand next to the horse with the lead rope in one hand, loose, and the carrot stick in the hand closest to the horse, resting on the horses withers, or tapping the top of the butt to ask the horse to move forward. Sounds simple enough, right? The problem is trying to keep focus on where you are trying to go, while juggling the rope, the carrot stick, and the horse that of course wants to go in a different direction. We had a couple of successful tries, but it is definitely something I’m going to need to work on a bit more. At least it is a fun and different game to play. You are supposed to pick a specific location to drive the horse to, a rope on a fence, a fence post, the end of a jump, etc. The idea is to focus on the place you want to go, and drive the horse there and put its nose on the object/spot. I had to take some time practicing turning so that Lola understood that I wanted her to do what I was doing. Really all she wanted to do is eat grass.

I’m really looking forward to the new barn. She’ll be turned out on grass, so hopefully it won’t be as much of an obsession when I’m trying to work with her, and the ring is sand, so I’ll have a place to work without worrying about her snacking all the time!

That pretty much took up my time with her today. Of course I groomed her a bit, covered her in fly spray several times, and put ointment on all her boo-boos.

I’m really enjoying the new Parelli Level 1 kit. The directions are good, and the order makes sense. It is so logical to do this driving from Zone 3 thing before introducing the Circle game.

I’ve got to get to bed. Going to the barn this morning was awesome, but then I had to work tonight, didn’t finish until after midnight, and now it is after 1:30am. I wish I wasn’t such a night owl sometimes, but if I wasn’t I’d probably never get anything done!

A Perfect Night!

Had an AMAZING night at the barn last night. After a couple of really hot days, the weather was perfect. It was low 70s and sunny. Between being away last week, and the hot days early this week, Lola hasn’t had much work. The couple of times I’ve been to the barn since vacation I basically groomed her, hosed her down, and let her graze a bit. Last night, we actually got some work done.

We started in her stall and did a really good grooming. I spent lots of time scratching her itchy spots and rubbing her down. The flies were pretty terrible. Fly spray helped, but didn’t solve the problem. At one point, I was grooming her, and she rested her head on my head and just stayed there for a few seconds. So cute! She’s a very snuggly horse.

After I groomed her, we went down to the indoor. We started with lots of Friendly game, and then moved on to the Porcupine game. I pushed her a bit and asked for a full circle of her front end, in both directions, and the same with her backend. I also asked her to backup quite a few steps, until she was almost touching the wall. She did really well. I tapped her feet, asking her to pick them up, and she did great.

We did Driving game. Her front end is now moving almost as well as her back end. It’s great! She was driving back with just the slightest shake of my fingers. We were really communicating well last night. It was really special.

I increased the challenge a bit by using the porcupine and driving games to back her over a ground pole and to ask her to come over a jump. It’s taking her a little getting used to. She’s a little nervous about backing over the ground pole, but she is really trying hard and really working to figure it out. It’s so neat to see her drop her head and lick her lips while she is relaxing and figuring things out.

We played Circle game a little, and she did very well. She understands what I want now when I send her off, she’s just not quite confident on keeping going yet, but it was MUCH better last night than it has been in the past.

I thought it might be a good challenge to stand outside the door to the indoor and send Lola in ahead of me. No problem at all. I decided I should make things a bit more challenging, so I played porcupine game with her through the much smaller people door. Again, no problem. I used the circle game to send her in through the people door in both directions, no problem. This horse is not very claustrophobic at all. I haven’t officially done Squeeze game with her yet, but I think that is going to be the easiest of all for her.

I finished the night be playing Friendly game with her from up on a mounting block. I leaned on her, rubbed her all over with the carrot stick, and rubbed her opposite side while I was leaning on her. She’s still not perfectly happy with it all, but she is getting MUCH more tolerant. I can't wait to ride her! I also can't wait to move her to her new barn and have her close enough to stop by and say "hello."

What a great night! I love my snuggly horse!

Barn Confusion

Friday, July 7, 2006

I’m so conflicted. I found a barn yesterday that I really like, but of course it is more than Sarah’s. They have a pasture board option, but as I thought about it, I’m not sure I want that. At Sarah’s, I do have a stall, I use it all the time to groom in, to confine her for treats, and she spent lots of time in her stall when we had the horrible rain this spring. What would I have done about her rain rot if I didn’t have a stall for her?

Tonight...

This barn conflict is driving me crazy. I’ve been emailing with Jackie, the owner of the new barn for a couple of days now, and I really like everything she has to say. I think this barn could be a really good fit for me, and for Lola. The woman seems very open-minded about all different kinds of riding styles, and she’s even studied some natural horsemanship. The only thing holding me back from jumping at this barn is money. It will be an extra $65 a month. Not the end of the world, but certainly enough that I’ll need to reorganize my finances a bit.

I’ve been stressing, and fretting about this decision for a couple of days now. I like this new barn owner’s attitude a lot. She has a 10 x 14 stall, right in the middle of the barn, nice and big and airy and rubber matts, there is a lighted riding ring, trails, a jump field, great turnout, and it is kid-friendly. Of course it is also very close to home which is a huge bonus. I think I’ve just got to go for it. I’ve already crafted a letter to the new barn owner, but I’ve decided not to send it until the morning so I can sleep on it one more night.

There are only 8 stalls in this barn, and I’m afraid if I lose this opportunity, there won’t be another opening for a while. I’ve been looking at barns for a couple of months now, many of them I was able to rule out without even seeing them, some I could quickly rule out when I visited, and two I actually liked pretty well, but they had waiting lists for stalls and no openings in the foreseeable future.

Barn confusion aside, Lola is doing really well. I’m pushing her a bit on the first three Parelli games and asking her to take more steps each time. Skylar has been working with her quite a bit and they are doing really well together. It’s so neat to see Skye learning the Parelli stuff and working with Lola. I hope one of these days I can get her into a lesson program, and even better, I can't wait for the day when she can ride Lola!